A year ago when my wife and I were invited on the weekend retreat with Nicole Daedone and OneTaste<\/a> (from the 4 Hour Body) she mentioned that a 15 minute orgasm was just what your partner needed to break the funk of PMS.<\/p>\n Now I don’t know about this one, but I can tell you that beyond the mystery of \u00a0a 15 minute orgasms lies a greater complexity:<\/p>\n The world of female hormones!<\/strong><\/p>\n As a man, when I approach the topic of sex with my partner (this case my wife of 10 years) I do so even today with a beginners optimism.<\/p>\n Pretty much just hoping that she will be as excited as I am about the idea of sex. This of course depends on the strength of my sales pitch.<\/p>\n But with a house full of clutter and kids and diapers… sometimes it seems I may be adding another “to do” \u00a0(no pun intended) to my wife’s already full plate.<\/p>\n As men it is easy to feel hurt when our partners do not respond positively to our sexual advances.<\/p>\n The staff at OneTaste and possibly Tim Ferriss, claim they have a solution to this.<\/p>\n But, there is much more to a women’s libido than the promise of a long extended orgasm.<\/p>\n Hormones, effect more than just our desire for sex, but also, as you will see, many other aspects of our day to day lives.<\/p>\n A woman’s desire for sex is correlated to her menstrual cycle, with many women experiencing a heightened sexual desire in the several days immediately before ovulation.<\/p>\n This cycle has been associated with changes in a woman’s testosterone levels during the menstrual cycle. According to many specialists, testosterone levels have a direct impact on a woman’s interest in sex.<\/p>\n Testosterone levels rise gradually from about the 24th day of a woman’s menstrual cycle until ovulation on about the 14th day of the next cycle, and during this period the woman’s desire for sex increase consistently.<\/p>\n The 13th day is generally the day with the highest testosterone levels<\/strong>. In the week following ovulation, the testosterone level is the lowest and as a result women will experience less interest in sex.<\/p>\n Also, during the week following ovulation, progesterone levels increase, resulting in a woman experiencing difficulty achieving orgasm.<\/p>\n Although the last days of the menstrual cycle are marked by a constant testosterone level, women’s libido may boost as a result of the thickening of the uterine lining which stimulates nerve endings and makes a woman feel aroused.<\/p>\n During these days, estrogen levels also decline, resulting in a decrease of natural lubrication.<\/strong><\/p>\n Although some specialists disagree with this theory, menopause is still considered by the majority a factor that can cause decreased sex desire in women.<\/p>\n The levels of estrogen decrease at menopause and this usually causes a lower interest in sex and vaginal dryness which makes intercourse painful. Also, the levels of testosterone increase at menopause and this is why some women may experience a contrary effect, of an increased libido.<\/p>\nTestosterone and a Woman’s Libido<\/h2>\n